By Danielle Andrews
The start of a new year is the perfect time to hit refresh and make some relationship resolutions. Take stock and set meaningful intentions to improve your love life! Whether you’re single and putting yourself out there or in a relationship looking to deepen your connection, creating resolutions can help shift your romantic goals into reality.
And no, these resolutions don’t have to be daunting! Think of them as simple, actionable promises that add joy, connection, and growth to your life. Here’s a list of meaningful New Year’s resolutions tailored for both singles and couples, guaranteed to help you step into 2025 with love.
Resolutions for Singles
If you’re currently single, 2025 can be your year for personal growth and new beginnings. Relationships begin with self-investment—when you feel confident, content, and whole as an individual, you naturally attract meaningful connections.
Open Yourself to Meeting New People
It’s easy to get stuck in routines that limit your social circle, but adding diversity to how and where you meet people can open new doors. Sign up for a class that interests you, join a community group, or attend that meetup you’ve been meaning to try. Expanding your horizons makes dating less about swiping on apps and more about real, organic connections that start with shared interests and experiences.
Love Yourself First
Before committing to someone else, make self-love an everyday practice. Dedicate time to journaling, meditating, or practicing affirmations. Set boundaries with people who drain your energy, and recognize your worth is not defined by your relationship status.
Try these affirmations: “I am worthy of a loving relationship”, “I am open to receiving love”, “I am attracting my soulmate”, “Love is flowing freely to me”, “I am aligned with the frequency of love”.
Pro tip: Go on a solo date this month—treat yourself to dinner, a museum, or even a movie. Learning to enjoy your own company is a huge step toward self-love.
Define What You’re Looking For
Be clear on what kind of relationship you want—whether it’s casual dating or something serious. Write down the qualities you value most in a partner and reflect on how your needs have evolved over time. By knowing your own intentions, you’ll avoid pursuing the wrong connections and make room for someone who is right for you.
Say Yes More Often
Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.
Neale Donald Walsch
Sometimes we instinctively say “no” to invitations just to stay in our comfort zones. Make this the year of saying “yes” a little more often—to that blind date your friend suggests, that dinner party where you know only one person or an event you wouldn’t normally go to. Simply resolve to get out more. By stepping out, you give yourself more opportunities for serendipitous, meaningful moments that could change your life forever.
Travel More
Hey, you’re single! Now is the time to use this freedom to get up and go! Before commitment to someone else, before kids. Buy a plane ticket to somewhere you’ve always wanted to go and go solo. Do it just for the thrill of it. And because you can! Interesting things happen when you travel. You never know who you might encounter.
Improve Communication
Good communication isn’t just essential in relationships—it’s also key in building connections as you date. Practice active listening and express yourself clearly. Being upfront and kind, even in casual dating scenarios, fosters meaningful interactions.
Practice these two simple habits:
- Ask open-ended questions to show genuine interest.
- Take a moment to reflect before responding; thoughtful communication builds trust.
Be conscious of your body language:
Our body language can end a conversation before it even starts. Show the world that you are open to meeting new people. Improve your posture. Walk with confidence and keep your head up. Smile more. Scan the room for people to make eye contact with. Unfold your arms. Be aware of what your body language is saying to people.
Nurture your friendships:
Instead of focusing on what you feel is missing, celebrate the people who are currently in your life. Nurture those relationships and be open to building new friendships. Our lives become richer and opportunities to be introduced to new people through those friendships increase tenfold!
Resolutions for Couples
If you’re happily involved with someone, there’s always room to strengthen your bond. Just as we invest in our careers and personal goals, tending to your partnership can bring depth, happiness, and mutual growth to your love life.
Schedule Weekly Connection Time
Between busy schedules, work, and endless to-do lists, it’s easy to forget to carve out uninterrupted quality time for each other. Plan a weekly “us time”—whether it’s cooking a meal, going on a date night, or even staying in for a movie and cuddles. Consistency strengthens emotional intimacy and reminds you both of your priority in each other’s lives.
Express Gratitude Daily
It’s so easy to take your partner’s efforts for granted, but small acknowledgments go a long way. Start making a habit of sharing one thing you’re grateful for about each other every day. For example: “Thank you for making coffee this morning; it made my day better.” Over time, you’ll both feel more appreciated and connected.
Bring Playfulness into Your Relationship
Play is the highest form of research.
Albert Einstein
Every strong relationship thrives on fun and lightheartedness. Tap into the playful aspects of your bond by trying new hobbies together, planning surprise adventures, or even having a silly photo session. Life can get serious. By creating space for joy and laughter, you’ll remind each other how enjoyable being together really is.
Learn Something New Together
Shared personal growth deepens connection. Whether it’s taking up dance lessons, learning a new language, or starting a DIY project, exploring new challenges as a couple will enrich your relationship. Plus, it gives you plenty to talk (and laugh!) about when things don’t go as planned.
Work on Conflict Resolution
Conflict is inevitable, but combat is optional.
Max Lucado
All couples experience disagreements. Instead of focusing on “who’s right,” prioritize understanding each other. Practice active listening during arguments. Use “I” statements instead of blame (e.g., “I feel hurt when…” instead of “You always…”). Take breaks when things feel heated—sometimes, a breather is the best way forward. Building healthier communication habits in times of conflict creates a stronger emotional safety net for both partners.
Celebrate Milestones Big & Small
From your anniversary to seemingly small wins like completing a project together—make it a point to celebrate. Whether it’s with a heartfelt toast, flowers, or an impromptu getaway, acknowledging these moments adds grace and joy to your bond. Celebrations remind us how far we’ve come together—and that’s always worth acknowledging.
Bring Love into 2025
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